Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Review #8: The Last Lecture



Book Title: The Last Lecture
Author: Randy Pausch & Jeffrey Zaslow
Year Published: 2008
Publisher: Hyperion Books (USA)
                 Hodder & Stoughton (UK)


My tidbits
Firm but compassionate. That’s how I see Randy Pausch, the author of this international bestseller. I have never known him, but inspiration knows no boundaries. Dr. Randy was a brilliant scientist, who was also a professor in Carnegie Mellon University. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2006, when he was only 46 years old. As a way to create as many memories as possible for his very young children, Randy chose to do what he was best at: delivering lectures.

“The Last Lecture” is a based on a talk he gave to the audience of 400 in Carnegie Mellon, titled “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams”. Randy Pausch prepared slides on how he achieved his childhood dreams, and creating dreams for other people around him. The video of his lecture is available for viewing on Youtube =) 

Achieving childhood dreams? Not many people are that lucky. Some have it buried under their conscious life. However, Randy Pausch was able to fulfill some of dreams in his checklist. I believe Randy worked really hard to be where he was – and he grabbed every little chance offered to him, that would lead him to get nearer to his childhood dreams.  Keep finding ways and pushing, and pushing. I admire his persistence, really. Randy had this view/motto/idea that “brick walls are there for a reason: they let us prove how badly we want things.” That pretty much explains how he checked all of those in the list =)

As bright as he always was – he was a Disney Imagineer for 6 months, and became a once-a-week consultant for Disney for the next 10 years – Randy had every right to be conceited. In fact, some people perceived him as “tactless” and “quickest to offend someone he just met” (pg. 67), though he didn’t mean it that way. Yet, he was humble enough to call himself as a “recovering jerk” (pg. 116), when he found a student that was difficult to work with. I found it inspiring, as I don’t have the humility to admit that I am too, can be like that sometimes =p

Some cliché advices we have heard, somewhere, somehow. Randy talked about them too here. Oh no. That sounds like another way to close the book prematurely. But Randy still caught my attention and got me to sit and read the advices carefully. “All of You Have to do is Ask”, “Loyalty is Two-Way Street”, or “Be the First Penguin” are just few of the “oh-so-true” advices linked to his interesting life experiences.  

“The Last Lecture” really gives me the impression of a compilation of Randy’s fatherly advices and listening to his childhood stories (growing up in 60’s and 70’s sounds cool to me now). My own father shares a lot of his wisdom to his children (I win the parent lottery too!), and maybe that’s why this book holds a special place in my heart =)

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Review #7: The Hundred Secret Senses



Book Title: The Hundred Secret Senses
Author: Amy Tan
Year published: 1995
Publisher: Vintage Books, a division of Random House, Inc., New York, USA.


My Tidbits

Reading “The Hundred Secret Senses” do feel like having a reunion with Ms. Amy Tan. My first encounter with her works happened back in 2005. Tan’s “The Bonesetter’s Daughter” was used as one of three literary works being examined for English Literature subject that year. I remember I was so hooked up with the book. The storyline was flowing, and the most vital thing: the characters spoke in modern, American English. Everyone will nod in agreement for sure – the other reading materials were Shakespeare’s “Twelfth Night” (which was actually entertaining) and Henry Handel Richardson's "Getting of Wisdom". 

Instead of the cultural gap between mothers and their daughters, “The Hundred Secret Senses” revolves around a half-American Olivia Laguni and her step-sister from China, Kwan Li. To Olivia, or often referred by Kwan as “Libby-ah”, Kwan is her source embarrassment and fear. Kwan, with her mangled English, is a person of inexhaustible cheerfulness and holds Olivia very dearly. The absent figure of Olivia’s mother after her father’s death is replaced by Kwan, who took care of her needs. Still, Olivia doesn’t regard her highly. Every night, Kwan would also tell stories to her in Mandarin. The story of Kwan’s past life, way back in 19th century, as she believes she has “yin eyes” and is able to talk with the spirit of dead persons. Although Olivia tried to overlook it, slowly the stories engraved into her memory.

Another central character is Simon Bishop, Olivia’s estranged husband. They grow apart after 17 years of marriage, and it may sound common in individualist Western culture. However, the gloomy story from the past involving Simon’s deceased ex-girlfriend soon prove to be a hurdle in Olivia’s seemingly perfect marriage.

Amy Tan got me amazed with her detailed description on places. The scene where Olivia and Simon took a tour around their future house required my dictionary to be my savior =p Tan’s rich vocabularies, alongside the smooth transition between each character’s personal stories, let my imagination run wild. It took me a while to absorb myself in Kwan’s past life, while occasionally shifted to present day Olivia’s perspective. Nevertheless it didn’t take me long to hail “The Hundred Secret Senses” as Tan’s masterpiece so far! =)

The scenes such as “scolding someone means care about them”, or even the inability to express the frozen feelings after so long don’t sound odd for me. As a Chinese descent myself, and as a human being at a greater view, I have experienced what Olivia or Kwan feel and face. In the end, it is what Amy Tan’s works all about: to touch our real emotion behind the oh-so-celebrated glamorous façade. Behind every perfect image we carve, there’s always hidden pain and discomforts, traced back to our roots. It is necessary to understand that everyone has a significant story that shaped them – you are just yet to hear about it.

“Love is tricky.
It is never mundane or daily. You can never get used to it.
You have to walk with it, then let it walk with you.
You can never balk.
It moves you like the tide.
It takes you out to the sea, then lays you on the beach again.
Today’s struggling pain is the foundation for a certain stride through the heavens.
You can run from it but you can never say no.
It includes everyone.”
(The Hundred Secret Senses, pg. 92)